If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts or desires please immediately call one of these crises lifelines. Someone is waiting to listen.
If you are in crisis or have suicidal thoughts, please call the suicide crisis hotline at
You can also text "CONNECT" to 741741 anytime to reach trained, caring volunteers at the
National Crisis Text Line.
No exceptions! Your ACE score can help your medical doctor, and mental health therapist cut to the chase on your very first visit. This simple test gives a dose-response relationship to your health outcomes. That means, high doses of adversity in childhood account for high doses of physical and mental health problems.
Ladies! I bet you never thought you might be the one to have a sexual addiction. But you're not sure? Take the test!
Do you need to book an appointment to discuss problems with sexual behaviors?
This a safe, private, and confidential space for you!
"Betrayal is the sense of being harmed by the intentional actions or omissions of a trusted person." ~ P. Carnes, PhD
Do you find yourself committed to a relationship that continually exposes you to recurrent abuse, infidelity, and betrayal?
You may be experiencing a betrayal bond.
As a population we are much more aware of PTSD today that we were fifty years ago. Yet there's so much more to understand about trauma than just a Google search. sign up to take a comprehensive assessment to fully understand the impact of trauma in your life. Understand terms like Traumatic Bonding and Traumatic Reenactment. Schedule an Appointment to get started with this very important assessment.
Questions, questions, questions!
Infidelity and betrayal by your partner raises lots of questions. Thoughts and images are relentless.
You think you are going crazy.
Our comprehensive partner betrayal assessment helps to make sense of it all.
It's a great starting point to your journey of healing.
How well are you prepared for the biggest decision of your life?
How well are you doing after making the biggest decision of your life?
Marriage is so much more than just saying "I do!"
Communication. Conflict Management. Finances. Stressors. Personality Differences. Habits. Sexual Intimacy. Step-parenting.
Our couples assessment reveals what's going well and areas for growth.
Have you struggled with depression for so long that you now call it "My Depression?"
I understand. There's a good reason you feel the way you do.
Sure you are familiar with all the Symptoms but have ever explored the Sources? Don't own it...Fight it!
Let's explore practical Solutions together.
You did not become a codependent, love addicted, narcissistic, clingy, jealous anxious lover by chance.
It all began in the earliest most important relationships in your life. Understanding your attachment styles and the circumplex of your family dynamics can explain why your adult relationships are in trouble. A simple assessment of your Experience in Close Relationships (ECR) can be the path to change.
Powerful messages about money and work begin from childhood. Maybe you grew up with having all that money can buy. Or perhaps, meeting basic needs were a daily struggle for your family. Either experience shaped how you think about money and work today. If money and work are creating problems in your finances and relationships, the money and work assessment is the place to begin.
Has your life has been affected by compulsive sexual behaviors? COSA asks these questions:
Visit their website www.cosa-recovery.org for more information and resources.
For those struggling with compulsive debting.
Virtue Matters, LLC and Laura Meyer cannot vouch for the operational integrity of any organization on the above resource list. Some groups may conflict with your religious views and values. Please do your due diligence before entering into any arrangement, financial or otherwise, with any organization.